"And the people answered him not a
word." 1 Kings
18:21
KJV
2009 © Elder Scott Ray
S.B.G.
Web: http://av-1611.com E-Mail: elder@av-1611.com
In the realm of
organized religion, the
traditions of men, denominational
views, bible
institutes, bible
colleges, bible
seminaries,
etc.,
there is
a
preconcieved
belief among
those
in
professing
Christendom that if
a man is
divorced or
remarried then
is is not
"good
enough" for the
job
in
the
Ministry as a
Bishop,
Elder,
Overseer,
Pastor,
and that
even of a
Deacon.
Thus, like in the
Artricle I wrote
"Husband of One
Wife?",
we will
be
examining and looking
at
several verses of
scripture
that come from
Paul's
writtings as well
as
those
that
come from the
Law.
1 Timothy
3:2-7 KJV
"A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one
wife,
vigilant, sober, of good
behaviour, given to
hospitality, apt
to teach;
Not
given to wine, no
striker, not
greedy of filthy lucre;
but patient, not a
brawler, not
covetous; One that ruleth well his own house,
having
his
children in subjection with all
gravity;
(For if a man know not how
to rule his
own house, how
shall he
take care of
the
church of God?) Not a novice, lest
being lifted up
with pride he fall
into the condemnation
of the devil.
Moreover
he must have a
good
report of
them which are without;
lest he fall into
reproach and the
snare of the
devil."
If "the husband of one wife" meant
to never be divorced then the scriptural grounds
for divorce that was
given by the
Lord Himself and the Apostle Paul
which
actually
unbinds a marriage
and releases for
a new marriage
without sin is
pointless. "God forbid: yea,
let God be true,
but every man a
liar;" Romans 3:4a.
Now
look below
here at the
verses
listed under the
Dispensation of the Grace
of God
as
well as the one from under the
Law.
1 Corinthians 7:15
"But if the unbelieving
depart (SAVED OR LOST), let him (OR HER) depart. A
brother (INCLUDES BISHOPS AND DEACONS) or a sister is
not under bondage in
such cases: but God hath called us (EVERY SAVED
PERSON) to peace (NO
STRIFE OR FIGHTING OR FINGER
POINTING)."
1
Corinthians
7:27 "Art
thou
(SINGULAR
DISTINCTIVE = A MAN) bound
unto a wife (PAUL
DOES NOT STATE IF
THIS WIFE
#1)? seek not to be loosed. Art
thou
loosed from a wife? seek
not a
wife."
1
Corinthians
7:28 "But and if thou marry
(TOLD NOT TO SEEK A NEW WIFE, BUT IF
YOU DO), thou hast
not
sinned (IT IS NOT GOOD FOR MAN TO
BE
ALONE); and if a
virgin marry,
she hath not sinned.
Nevertheless
such shall
have
trouble in the
flesh: but I
spare
you."
Matthew
19:9 "And I say unto you (PLURAL DISTINCTIVE =
NATION OF
ISRAEL), Whosoever
shall
put away
his wife,(REMEMBER THIS IS
UNDER THE
LAW, NOT
GRACE)
except it
be for fornication (AN
EXCEPTION UNDER
THE
LAW), and shall
marry another,
committeth adultery:
and whoso
marrieth her
which
is put
away doth commit
adultery."
If "the husband
of one wife" meant never to be divorced, then
multiple live-in
relationships, as
long as one stays away
from the
sacrament of marriage,
allows
a
promiscuous
person to
hold office of Bishop and keep a faithful
non-promiscuous person with possibly a deserting wife from
serving God. This is
neither the
intent nor
the correct
application of the section of
this
verse.
Paul never
intended for
any of what has been
going on for the past 2000 years to
happen. Even under
grace!
If "the husband of one
wife" meant never to be divorced then why didn't
God just simply say
"never
divorced"? Man wants to focus
on
sin, under the
Dispensation
of
Grace,
while God
wants us to renew
the
mind, and win the lost to Christ.
Anyway, a
man or woman that is
divorced, as the word
is used in the
Bible, means
unbound,
loosed or
unmarried.It is Biblically impossible to
be divorced yet be married to a person, at the same time.
The Bible never
expects for a "put
away" spouse to live
that
way
forever, they are
absolutely
free to
remarry.
See the
below
verses.
1 Corinthians 7:8
"I say therefore to the unmarried (VIRGINS,
DIVORCED) and widows,
It is
good for them
if they abide
even as
I
(SINGLE)."
1
Corinthians 7:27 "Art
thou
(SINGULAR
DISTINCTIVE
= A
MAN) bound
unto a wife?
seek
not to be loosed. Art thou
loosed from a wife? seek
not a
wife."
John
4:17 "The
woman answered and
said, I have no
husband (SHE HAS HAD FIVE, BUT NOW HAS
NONE). Jesus said
unto
her, Thou hast
well said (CHRIST IS TOTALLY IN
AGREEMENT WITH HER), I
have
no husband:
(CHRIST SAW SHE HAD
NO
HUSBAND)"
John 4:18 "For thou hast
had (PAST TENSE -
DID HAVE IN
TIMES PAST) five
husbands;
and he
whom
thou now hast (RIGHT NOW) is
not
thy
husband: in
that
saidst thou
truly."
The "put away" spouse is
NEVER one who is attached to a former living spouse;
that is ridiculous! In
fact, if a
man (that a divorced
woman goes on
to marry) dies,
the
law of
death
that
frees her from her
second
husband forbids that
woman to return to the
first
husband. (Why?) Because that
first
man that is still
living is not her
(living)
husband any more! And yet to the fact, many
groups today
teach you
must go back to your first husband
to be saved. Hog wash! Paul never taught it,
neither
shall I! Besides, That is an
abomination to God. according to Deut 24:3-4, which
is under the
Law, and only
someone who does not know
their
Bible would
pretend
otherwise!
Romans 7:1 "Know ye not,
brethren, for
I speak to
them
that
know
the law, how that the law hath
dominion over a man as long as he
liveth?"
Do
you know what
the law says? Jesus
said seven
times
"have ye not
read?" Even though in His
earthly
ministry,
which was
exclusive to the
Jews, the point is
still
valid!
"have
ye
not
read?"
Act 17:11 "...they received the word (DID NOT
QUESTION OR CHANGE TGHE WORD TO FIT
THEIR
PREFERENCE) with
all
readiness of mind, and searched
the
scriptures daily,
whether those things were
so."
1
Thessalonians
5:21 "Prove
all (ALL MEANS
ALL) things; hold fast
(TO
HANG ON
TO) that which is
good."
1
Thessalonians
5:24 "Faithful is he
(GOD)
that calleth you (THE
MEMEBERS OF THE BODY OF
CHRIST), who also will do it."
Romans
12:2 "And be not
conformed to
this world: but
be ye
transformed by
the
renewing of your (PLURAL
DISTINCTIVE = MEMEBERS OF THE
BODY OF CHRIST) mind,
that ye (PLURAL DISTINCTIVE = MEMEBERS
OF THE BODY OF
CHRIST)
may
prove what is that
good, and acceptable, and perfect,
will of
God."Acts 25:7 "And
when he was come, the Jews which came down from Jerusalem
stood round about, and
laid many and
grievous complaints
against Paul, which they could not
prove (NO EVIDENCE TO BACK UP THEIR
ACCUSATIONS)."
Other things to
consider:
-One has to deny the laws of marriage,
divorce, and
remarriage, and the
Biblical examples of
multiple
wives.
Genesis 4:19 "And Lamech took unto him two wives (MORE THAN ONE AT THE
SAME TIME IN TIMES
PAST BEFORE THE FLOOD): the name of the one was Adah, and the name of
the
other Zillah."
The "the husband of
one wife" in the Greek does not say divorce but
literally "a one woman
man" that's
for all those
hypocrites eveywhere
that always
run to
the Greek
to
show how smart they
really are
not. If everyone
else can not read Greek
and you
can,
it is your word against
NOBODY else in
most
of
the local
churches. One
would have to ignore the greatest ministry in the
world which is to restore
and
reconcile.
Galatians
6:1 "Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are
spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness;
considering thyself,
lest thou also
be
tempted."
2
Corinthians
5:18 "And all
things are of God, who
hath reconciled us to himself
by Jesus
Christ, and
hath given to
us the ministry of
reconciliation;"
Romans 11:29 "For the gifts and calling of God are without
repentance."
Since
the list includes novices, the pagan world would not have
been able to follow
the list to the
"letter" without some
liberty.
Catholics, Church of
God,
Baptist,
Pentacostal, Church of Christ...etc does not
seem to get this one. I addressed this in the Sister
Article "Husband of One
Wife?" that
is
wrote.
One has to deny the
context and author of
1
Tim who was
neither married nor
innocent of all that he
commanded;
Before
salvation
1 Timothy 1:12-13
"And I thank Christ Jesus
our Lord, who hath enabled me, for that he counted me
faithful, putting me into
the
ministry; Who was before a blasphemer,
and a persecutor,
and
injurious: but
I obtained mercy,
because I did it
ignorantly
in
unbelief."
After
salvation
Acts 23:3 "Then said Paul unto him, God shall smite thee, thou whited wall: for sittest thou to judge me after the
law, and commandest me to be smitten contrary to the
law?"
Titus 1:7
"For a bishop must be
blameless, as the steward of God; not selfwilled, not soon
angry, not given to
wine, no
striker, not given to filthy
lucre;"
This
also includes
Peter
1 Timothy 3:10
"And let these also first be proved; then let them
use the office of a deacon, being found
blameless."
Galatians 2:11
"But when Peter was come
to Antioch, I withstood him
to the
face, because he was to
be
blamed."
Religion follows a
hypocritical,
pharisaical
approach that never
follows the
letter of the
word even when it
also comes to
women speaking in
church or their
own
kid's
obedience
or
filthy
lucre
etc. They pick and
choose.
They ignore all else that is
given
by
our Apostle
Paul as
guidelines for
the requirements of a
Bishop or a
Deacon.
The bible
truth is
easy;
however, if
error
is to be made
it must fall on
the
side of grace
(getting
what we don't deserve). There
is a very grave danger in
manipulating
the application
of a
verse to actually disqualify God's laborers
that he
alone has
called. We are all called! We, the Members of the
Body of Christ, we are Saved, we
are sealed till
the day of redemption,
and
accoding to His (Christ)
Blood, we
have the forgiveness of
sins (ALL,
Past,
Present, and
Future). We are complete in him.
Romans
11:29
"For the gifts and calling of God are without
repentance (NOT UP TO ANY OF US TO
JUDGE)."
1 Corinthians 4:2-5
"Moreover it is required
in stewards, that a man be found faithful. But with me it
is a very small thing
that I should
be judged of you, or
of man's
judgment: yea, I judge not
mine own
self. For I know nothing by myself;
yet am I not hereby justified:
but
he that judgeth me is
the Lord. Therefore
judge nothing before
the time, until
the Lord come, who
both will bring to light the hidden
things of
darkness,
and will make
manifest the
counsels of the hearts: and then shall
every man have
praise of
God."
One has
to
deny 2
Corinthians 5:17-20 "Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold,
all things are become new. And all
things are of God, who
hath reconciled us to himself by Jesus
Christ, and hath
given to us the
ministry of
reconciliation; To wit,
that God
was
in Christ, reconciling
the world
unto himself, not imputing
their trespasses
unto them; and
hath
committed unto
us the word of
reconciliation. Now
then we are ambassadors for
Christ, as
though God did
beseech you by us: we
pray you in Christ's
stead, be ye
reconciled to God. ". The list
is plainly in
the present
tense
not past
tense, nor is it in
the
future tense. Neither is
the
listing showing
the
Great Commission, which is
done
today by the major
denominations.
Titus 3:15
"All that are with me
salute thee. Greet them that love us in the faith. Grace be
with you (TO THE MEMBERS OF
THE BODY OF CHRIST, WHICH
ALSO INCLUDES ALL THAT ARE IN
THE
MINISTRY) all.
Amen."
A
Bishops
confession
Titus
3:3
"For we ourselves also
were sometimes foolish, disobedient, deceived, serving
divers (DIFFERENT) lusts
and
pleasures, living
in malice and
envy,
hateful, and hating
one
another."So, here we see a good
example of
90% of the men in the
ministry today, well at
least as
they were before they
were ever
saved. Captain of
a
football
team
who was intimate
with most of
the
cheerleaders?
Reading the word
"divorced"
into the verse when
it is
not there
is called
private
interpretation.
Much less
adding the
strict
adherence that allows no
grace under
any
circumstances
(even to
include
divorce before salvation)
shows a
strong
private prejudice.
2
Peter
1:20
"Knowing
this first, that no
prophecy of the
scripture is of any
private
interpretation (NOT UP TO YOU OR ME TO INTERPRATE)."
Most in
Religion seem to agree
with
each
other that a widowed pastor can
have a SECOND
wife and not violate
the word "ONE". This is not scriptural, if
you want
to
focas on spouses
instead of sharing the
Gospel.
Under the Law
a deceased
spouse is still
counted as having
been there
in Matthew
1:6 "And
Jesse begat
David the
king; and
David the
king begat Solomon of
her that had been the
wife of
Urias (NOTICE SHE WAS AT ONE TIME THE WIFE OF ANOTHER MAN, AND WAS
NOT
COUNTED TO BE HIS WIFE
ANYMORE);" So if
they that think them
selves to
be
something important
want to go about
and play
"do
this" and "do not
this",
Ibelieve
they need to read their
bible before they
open
their mouths.
Even better, they
should have their
mouths stopped and
remain silent.
They
need to
study.
Study and
notteach
others. Else they prove
themselves
to be
fools, not
knowing
what they
say.
One would have to make the Bible say
something that it does not, just like a Catholic would do
with Matthew 16:18 "And I
say also unto thee,
That thou art Peter,
and upon this
rock I will build my church; and the
gates of hell shall
not prevail
against it."
Anyone who
knows the ways of the
Catholics knows that they
all
say
that Peter is the founder of their church, and
that
they are the true
church, and
yet
they ignore Paul, but
they will
use his writtings, when it
fits
them
to do
so.
The
spiritual
applications of the Lord Jesus
Himself, in His
earthly
ministry, are never truly accepted or
applied. For example Jesus said that the woman
at the well
"hast HAD
five
husbands" but presently had
none!
Those who use this as a
proof text
for
multiple
living wives
never read or apply
their false teaching to themselves.
The question is
always "are
you divorced?"
when the proper
question
would have
to be "have
you
ever slept with
more than one
woman in
your whole
life?" Most
of the Once Only
married Preachers today and
the
Deacons could
never escape this
level of scrutiny
as to actually be a virgin and
to
only
know one woman. It does
happen in this present
evil
world, but is not
the standard that
we are to live by
in any stretch
of mans
imagination.
To
be even
more
critical of this, we
could talk
about
spiritual
adultery by a
lustful eye,
but maybe
some other
time.
Other
verses on
multiple wives
Before the
Law
Genesis 6:2
"That the sons of God (ANGLES NOT
CHRISTIANS) saw the daughters of men that they were fair; and they took them wives of all which they
chose (MORE THAN ONE WIFE WAS
CHOOSEN AT THE SAME
TIME)."
Durring
the
Law
Deut 17:17
"Neither shall he
multiply
wives to himself (MORE THAN ONE AT THE SAME TIME),
that his heart turn not away: neither shall he
greatly
multiply to himself silver
and gold."
1 Kings
11:3
"And he had seven hundred
wives (700 WIVES AT THE SAME
TIME),
princesses, and three hundred concubines:
and his wives
turned away his
heart."
Did you
know that
in
the
eyes of
the Pharisees,
God
Himself is
not
qualified.
Note:
This is also under the
Law
Ezr 10:3
"Now therefore let us make a covenant with our God to
put away all the wives, and such as are born of them,
according to the counsel
of my lord,
and of those
that
tremble at the
commandment of our God;
and let it
be done
according to the
law."
Jeremiah 3:8
"And I saw, when for all
the
causes whereby backsliding
Israel committed adultery I had put her away,
and given
her a bill of
divorce;
yet her
treacherous
sister Judah feared
not,
but went and played the harlot
also."
Common
sense must be applied,
for not every
"once known, once
married" bishop or
deacon that was
perfect in
every way
could have
children. That would
disqualify
them, not having children
to
prove
their
abilities. Yet, there
thousands of
preachers and deacons
that are
ordained, and guess what,
no
children. Do they not read their
bibles at
all?
The
list is an
obvious standard, but
elevated to "qualifications" because of the
word "must".
Hypocrites always
strain at a gnat and
swallow a
camel. A
sincere
close-up
examination reveals
many things, for example: 1. 1 Timothy 3:11 "Even so must
their wives be grave, not
slanderers, sober, faithful in all
things."
Hey! Better
start firing
a
lot of those once
married
Deacons
with those gossiping
wives!
2. 1 Timothy 3:12 "Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling
their children and their own houses
well."
You
might
have to
read that again, and
again
Oh yeah! T
hat will not
work
either.
You don't
get it because
you won't
read it
right!
3. 1 Timothy 3:7 "Moreover he must have a good report of them which
are without; lest he fall into reproach and the snare of
the
devil."
Does
that
include a credit
report, or a criminal background check? What about a
report from a customer service department? This
includes
waitresses who
receive
low tips
after serving
the
perfect
gentlemen. Most p
reachers
are commonly reported as
the worst
retail customers as well as
restaurant customers, in
attitude,
personality,
and the ego.
I have worked in the customer
service field for almost 21
years. I have never been tipped by a preacher or a
deacon!
Just get
complaints!
In truth, every bishop or
deacon that does not believe that they can hold an inspired copy of the word of
God, the King James Bible, in their hand is not qualified according to
Titus.
Titus 1:7 "For a bishop must be blameless, as the steward of
God; not selfwilled, not soon angry, not given to wine, no striker, not given to
filthy lucre;"
Titus 1:8 "But
a lover of hospitality, a lover of good men, sober, just, holy,
temperate"
Titus 1:9 "Holding fast the faithful word as he hath been taught, that he may be
able by sound doctrine both to exhort and to convince the
gainsayers."
Most
bishops and deacons are not holding fast to any word of God because they have
adopted a doctrine of devils that states that "only the original autographs are
the inspired word of God".
Be very careful who you disqualify from the ministry! It may
come back home to
you!